Is Sexual Fantasy Hazardous to Your Health?

Once in a while I come across an article worth sharing with you. If you’ve visited my website or follow my blog, you know that my motto is “Feed your fantasies”. This article takes a look at how our culture feels about sexual fantasy and how little (sadly!) things have changed in 35 years. Enjoy the read and feed your fantasies!

The Erotica Readers & Writers Association Blog: Is Sexual Fantasy Hazardous to Your Health?


My Website Is Live!

GirlWritingHello Readers – I hope this post finds you all well and thriving! I have exciting news to report – where to begin?!

Let’s start with my new website. I’m happy to announce that my new site, designed by the talented Tiku Fisher (remember him? He designed the Scorpio Awakens cover), is live. Now I have a home for my snippets and hope you’ll check for them regularly. Of course, I’ll still post about them on Facebook and Twitter. To find them on the website, simply click the My Bookshelf tab and choose the Scorpio Begins option.

So now I’ll be able to use this blog for more of what blogs are designed for – sharing personal news and views with you about my journey as a person and a writer. What would you like to hear about?

So, what else is new? I’m three-quarters of the way through the first draft of Scorpio Begins. I’m really enjoying crafting this story as much, if not more, as Scorpio Awakens. I’m happy to report that hubby Neil has turned out to be a damned fine editor and is an excellent champion of your needs as my readers. Stay tuned for more snippets….

This year, I joined the Romance Writers of America association and became a member of their Toronto Romance Writers branch. I’m very excited to be attending my first TRW meeting tomorrow, when I’ll be participating in a workshop with New York Times best-selling author, Bob Mayer. Bob will be teaching us about writing the novel, beginning with the original idea and core conflict, developing plot and character, working with point of view, and pulling everything together selling your book and the business of writing. How exciting is that!

That pretty well covers my news. Be well and, of course, Feed Your Fantasies!

 ~ Lilith ~


Grey Matter: A Pop Culture Commentary

Interesting commentary. What are your thoughts, Readers?


Fifty Shades Trilogy

Readers – would you run from a real-life Christian Grey?


Cleaning up and feeling sexy

What do I do to feel sexy? I bathe thoroughly every night, shave regularly and treat myself to a monthly manicure/pedicure. I endure hair removal sessions and quarterly dental cleaning.

I do enjoy walking through a spritz of perfume and wearing sexy lingerie that Neil enjoys removing.

Other than that, I’m a no fuss, no make-up kind of woman….

What do you do to feel sexy?


Random Thought

It amazes me that there are so many Twitter sites giving explicit instructions on sexual technique. I’m all for guidance, but let’s spend more time experimenting and exploring. And most of all, have fun!


Will you submit to Christian Grey?

I’m all for anything that leads to sexual self-examination & more openness. Bring our on, E.L. James



Ditto for orgasms, Canadian Ladies!



This quote may be of interest….


Back to Basics: the sense of touch

I certainly hope you all have tried a variety of different touch sensations. Ever tried touch with feathers…..